Lucrative Love by Tom Feltenstein
Author:Tom Feltenstein [Feltenstein, Tom]
Language: eng
Format: epub
Publisher: TAG Publishing LLC
Published: 2012-12-31T18:30:00+00:00
Pace Yourself
One of the worst things you can do is to assume after a short time (or one-night stand) that you and your millionaire are a done deal. While itâs great to be excited and think positively, that doesnât mean you should trade the Honda for a Hummer quite yet. You have to hold off and see how things go, or you could completely undermine all your hard work.
Once you start dating the rich, one of the first problems you will be faced with is the interference of friends and family some of whom will undoubtedly think that if youâre sleeping with a rich person, their money will rub off on you. So donât be surprised if relatives start hitting you up for cash. While this may be largely your own doing as you chatter on about your markâs money, these friends and relatives may invite themselves along on shopping sprees, hoping to catch a few crumbs from your gravy train. They live by the motto, âA score for you is a score for the family.â Well, not exactly. The change in your status can occur so quickly you just donât have time to adjust to their behaviorânor they to yours.
This is a heart-wrenching dilemma because while you donât want to turn your back on your family, you canât afford to bank roll them either. Carefully examine the need that is being presented to you. Choose which people you consider to be in your innermost circle. Budget some percentage of your windfall to help family members and friends who are truly in need, and stick to the budget so your own goals do not get subverted by the troubles of loved ones. Family issues are complicated and multilayered and can potentially ruin your millionaire marriage.
Your relatives donât know how to be rich any better than you do, so expect them to look like hillbillies. Knowing this, you should put off that first meeting with your intended as looooooong as you canâfor both your sake and theirs.
So the $64, 000 questionâor in this case the $64-million questionâis how can you adapt into this lifestyle? You know that there must be some connection between money and happiness. If there werenât, you wouldnât have spent the last six months to a year plotting your every move to meet a millionaire. The relationship between money and happiness, it would appear, is more complicated than the Excel spreadsheets you used to stalk your spouse.
This new ultra-wealthy lifestyle can and will bring you eternal happiness as long as you know just what you can and canât expect from it. Real life is never as good as your dreams; more than likely youâve overestimated how much pleasure youâll get from having millions of dollars. And soon youâll see that the millionaire or billionaire you put on a pedestal is actually human just like the rest of us. Yes, this money makes you happy in the short-term, and it absolutely makes life much easier, but you will quickly adjust to your new wealthâand everything it buys you.
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